I truly feel my attitude toward her has changed and I have been doing alot self examination. I realize that my responses to her in the past have been negative and angry. This ADHD thing really comes into play and now that I have been reading up on it I feel more compassion for her than anger. I am trying to focus my response and actions on what she needs. I am now getting stuff done around the house that I put off.
With an ADHD mind it can get pretty cluttered and hard to focus so...I am keeping the house clean etc. so that it is one less thing to create chaos in her mind. Last night she got frustrated and said she forgot to do the cat litter all week. I told her don't worry I took care of it, and went to bed. Things like that I am hoping will provide a connection.
I keep joking if it doesn't work with my wife the next woman will sure benefit from the changes I made.
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
