you are basing all your asumptions on your H based on who your H was....he is NO longer that person ...manyy become the mirror image of who they were. You cant rely on the that information. in fac you cant rely on him for anything

you have to do this. you Have to TOH. This is the ONLY way to get thru this...his MLC Im finally glad someone got thru to you


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest