Let me sit on it for awhile Breakaway. I want the marriage to work. It's not going to work as long as he's drinking to excess, which probably will happen if he's drinking a little. He is determined to be able to have a drink if he wants to. If I make it a dealbreaker at this point, this marriage is already doomed. I might as well file for divorce now.
I don't know how to find a medium.
Mel
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
