Time for me to change....scared as Hell! 2

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Flicka I don't know if I believe this with my H and his affair. I am afraid that it will become easier, but not for me, for him and her. If he doesn't have to fight for their R it may just make it work. He'll be able to relax and let it be. Because he chose her and he doesn't make mistakes, if he does he lives with them.

the fight is over naej, He got a KO and I am done. I have no more strength to fight for him, there is no point anymore. I really don't think he enjoys the fight.

I grew up in AA, Al-Anon, and Teen Al-Anon. My father was an alcoholic and my M drank alot after their D. Your right it does help.