Jeff, You are doing great. Do not allow thoughts of om to take up head space. Keep the communication lines open, just as you have been doing. I see progress being made here. I only caution you on this, keep your expectations at zero, do not get too hasty in jumping the hurdles w/her. She needs to feel safe and wants to be allowed to make her own decisions. Listen, validate and above all else be a true friend to her.
Good luck w/your cleaning venture!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
