Last shot at showing 'mystery'..

So I took Trixi's advice from earlier and posted a bunch of photos of me and new friends on my myspace page \:\) New guy friends and gal friends, hugging me, parties, salsa dancing, day trips where we're all hamming it up, etc.... my guy friends are actually gay but stbx doesn't know that. Stbx is still one of my 'friends' on myspace, so he'll probably at least see these. Obviously it shows my GAL! Since I moved away, he hasn't seen any of my new life- just heard about it occasionally when we chatted. Now that we have hardly any contact, I suppose this is a last resort. In October when we were talking more (I moved away in August), he sounded a bit less confident about himself and showed curiousity when I talked about my new life. Since then, he hasn't called, we've only emailed about the D- Maybe I should be adding more new life tidbits in the emails. I don't know.

I definitely feel like I am a good, fun, attractive person, and if stbx does not realize that then my life is not over. He has to make any effort to pursue me, if there is to be any reconciliation.

The D is pedaling along, stbx would like to wrap it up and be done at our March court date.

It occurs to me that I probably have done the most I can do, right? Maybe I need some input here. I dropped the rope a few months ago, and stbx has not come closer or 'chased' me at all. I'll see if he has any reaction to the pics of me w. new friends- if not, my sitch may be dead...

Any thoughts for me anyone?


DBer since 2003
D - 3/24/09
GAL and DBing for myself