yoyo, thanks for your post. I think daughters have it so hard when the first man in their lives (their fathers) let them down and lose that respect. It is true that it is such a disappointment and will give them issues in future relationships.
What happened after your H filed? Did he just do the initial filing and that was it or started the process? did you get an attorney?
It is 7 months since this sleazy affair started. How long did it take you to find out about the OW. You have waited 2 years. Have you been Dbing all of this time?? I am so upset with my H that I can hardly look at him never mind try to be nice. This OW has total control over him.
Silverfox, thanks for your support. I am having a bleak evening. Your H trying to act businesslike. what a joke. Your right none of them are thinking.
Next week I will get an idea of what is going to happen at work as far as the exposure. Wonder if the OW will still want him without job and his paycheck?
I will keep praying tonight. All that I can do. It is in God's hands.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09