yoyo, thanks for your post. I think daughters have it so hard when the first man in their lives (their fathers) let them down and lose that respect. It is true that it is such a disappointment and will give them issues in future relationships.

What happened after your H filed? Did he just do the initial filing and that was it or started the process? did you get an attorney?

It is 7 months since this sleazy affair started. How long did it take you to find out about the OW. You have waited 2 years. Have you been Dbing all of this time?? I am so upset with my H that I can hardly look at him never mind try to be nice. This OW has total control over him.

Silverfox, thanks for your support. I am having a bleak evening. Your H trying to act businesslike. what a joke. Your right none of them are thinking.

Next week I will get an idea of what is going to happen at work as far as the exposure. Wonder if the OW will still want him without job and his paycheck?

I will keep praying tonight. All that I can do. It is in God's hands.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09