before you move back or do anything else, for your sake and the kids please see a L!!! please think of the kids, do it for them, that whatever you do does not come back to bite you in the rear legally later. I know you dont' want a D, but the L is to protect yourself! do it, just talk to one and tell them the sitch, talk to someone who can tell you what's the best thing to do.
That man has been threatening with filing for D so many times, and now he does it and does not tell you? it is a huge red flag, please see it! he is trying to screw you up royally, don't let him.

Precisely when we are weak is that we are strong, you must remember that, that's the only way that God can be strong in our lives, when we confess that we are weak and can't go on any longer. No, you on your own dont' have the strenght, but God does!! believe in HIS strenght LB, only then will you be filled with that peace that surpases all understanding.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.