You are right MWG it is different when they are having an A. You don't need to be mean, but that is good you don't need to be around him either.

Keep praying that Hedge of Thorns prayer. That worked most recently for getting my h to move.

Hugs!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"