Changing it up a bit means saying what is on my mind. And also not be around when he is here.

I am not saying be mean, but let him know that enough is enough by voicing my feelings. If it were just MLC and no OW, then maybe I can handle this differently but this affair has been going on for almost five years now and we have known for almost four years.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19