You know your h better than anyone, so only you can decide what to do.

Just wasn't sure of your intentions and why you feel you need to say anything. I believe he knows what you have gone through.

YR has a good point. Maybe it's time to change it up a bit.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"