NO, he does not because he has said that everyone will get over it or that in a few years from now, we will laugh about this.
All he seems to be concerned with is how hurt ow will be and he cannot do that to her.
Glam: my h is really far enough along where he needs to hear how much something has affected us and not be all about him and how it will hurt ow. He only sees what he wants to see as he has no clue what we have gone thru.
There is a time to be silent but there is also a time to speak up because if you don't, it will be worse.
He, himself has always told me to speak up and tell him what is on my mind and I am doing just that.
He needs to know that even though God is in control, which I think he uses as an excuse and says that God does not answer his prayers or speak to him, that h still choose his lifestyle willingly and knowlingly no matter how it makes his own flesh and blood feel.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
