am I just an eternal pessimist?

[sage]

since h did say "I've been home almost a year and you still go to a site called divorce busting...why don't you go to a site for marriage busting" (obviously h just doesn't understand the title and just hears the divorce word) so knowing that such a titled site (mbuilders) does infact exhist...I took a look..and of course didn't like some of what it had to say...

so...ll...what is h trying to communicate to you by bringing this up? did you ask what his concern was? is he feeling as though YOU may be still not IN the m?


I found the marriage builders site depressing as hell after finding out about h's a. Heck, even "after the affair" felt like a disaster since we were SO far away from h wanting to be "in" the marriage, etc. Honestly? I think that DB is much more "sustainable". but that's my 2 cents (plus what jethro said... )

football season is fast aproaching and that will mean h on the phone with buddie (wich btw he is doing as we speak...the third attempt at calling him since his arival home just over an hour ago)

ah, LL, what if this football season you were his biggest cheerleader? Does he spend more than a few hours a week at it?

I know my h has planned his entire sunday around the game ... I think I'm getting him and his friend takeout from someplace! Hey, I'm gonna have one happy h after the game, though

Sage