MWG Snodderly is so right. I see it in my own h. He keeps those thoughts from 3 years captive about me and just can't shake what I did to him.

They are afraid to go back as to not what to be put in that situation ever again.

It isn't until they can get some help to get them through this crisis.

I worry about you too MWG. Your h will need to wake up eventually.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"