Detach>Worse>Weird>Better ???

[Sophie]

Hi Silver...I just came back from your thread..

I know you have to communicate with your H about the children but is there any way you can stop talking to him other than about them?

I have always avoided talks about the house, bills, relationship...well, the relationship talks stop last summer...but, he caught me off guard.

I had no idea he was going to threaten me with money and bills. He was getting along so well with all of us...he has had relaxing times over here.

But, just like serving me papers, this bill threat came at a time he needed money.

I think he thinks getting a D is going get him out of this mess....or at least get me to react enough to get him out of his mess.

It isn't going to happen...he's freaking out.

I am so glad I didn't give him any money. I kept telling him all my money was sitting at the L's office. He had to drop the case, I had to get my money back, and then maybe we could talk about it.

H just wanted money. H didn't want to hear of any other possibility.

H has backed off from that during the rest of the week and today...some of those bills were paid by him....and he's got the kids for the first time since, I don't know...Spring???

Just venting...It's really quiet around here...just me and the puppy.

I am dreaming more about feelings for someone new. I don't think I can hold on much longer if someone comes along and treats me like I deserve.