Could he just be trying to manipulate you with his comments? Is he trying to get a reaction from you about the police comment? I really do think you are a saint.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11