Glad you're doing better today. I know what you mean about wanting to know more concerning the OW. Early on I decided not to ask, but my H is a talker and he couln't resist telling me some things - I just listened quietly. Also, I read this on someone else's thread - when they're in the early stages they are high on love hormones and they want everyone else, including you, to be happy too. Then when reality sets in and the romance settles a little they start to consider the consequences. Maybe this is why your H is quiet now?
My H just sent another email asking to meet next Saturday and to discuss terms. Apparently he's forgotten (or he's ignoring) that I counterclaimed in September and we're required to go to mediation. I'm still not ready to see him - it's been almost 5 months. But I have become much stronger in those months. You will too.
Hang in there!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
