Hi Sophie,

Great advice from Snodderly. I know you have to communicate with your H about the children but is there any way you can stop talking to him other than about them? I agree about the "mother figure" problem.

My H just sent a more business type email compared to his last one. He seems to be under the impression that we can pick up where we left off - him discussing the D. Well, I've got news for him - That's not happening anymore. I'm trying to figure out how to respond to his latest if you have the chance to check my thread.

Snodderly, I'd love your advice too!

Stay strong Sophie.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10