I was surprised it was open already too. Was it last year or the year before it flooded? Remember part of the road was washed away. I wasn't expecting it to open for a few more days. But the WDOT site says it's now open.

I know he makes you feel special *at times*. It's like Niki says, he gives you just enough to hook you again. He isn't really and truly wooing you or pursuing you. He isn't chasing you or banging at your door. He's giving you just enough crumbs to keep you dangling from his hook.

I think this right here says it all:

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THAT is the problem, right there. He DOES make me feel special and woo'd, on occassion.


Do you really want/deserve to be treated this way only on occassion?

Sara's made some good points also. His list to you does seem more like a New Year's Resolution. My first husband was an addict. He was addicted to pot, at least for the first few years. And that was always more important than the kids or me. I know from experience that he will say whatever it takes to keep you dangling. This way he gets a little of everything he wants.

Trixi - you are a strong and capable woman.


Amy