Yoyo, the name of the book is surviving an affair by hartley. Outlines Plan A/Plan B. Also there is a website marriagebuilders that you could find out additional information.

I am sad today. My H dropped off the dreaded D papers. Interesting he is using the OW's atty that she used for her divorce 3 years ago. I hate this. I am seeing atty next week. this is not what I want but I have no choice and with H following the OW around by the nose we have no chance.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09