My H is also a MAN who has no interest in porn. The busty blonde on the screen I walked in on was JUST this kind of thing with windows popping everywhere.
In fact I TOLD my H that it was fine with me if he was interested in such...Like LL I was the one to scope out the adult channels on our cable package...I put on sexy shows....H falls asleep.
So BELIEVE IT OR NOT....not all men are "typical guys" in this regard. My H does not own a SINGLE "men's" magazine.
Frankly, I find this to be a bit of a cosmic joke as I, myself, was conditioned early on to find erotica quite arousing...H...just no interest. Perhaps it has to do with low sex drive/low testosterone???
Even though it IS a moot point, LL, I think your H's explanation is completely believable.
Quote: Sorry Poe, but sometimes you just P!ss me off! Hey, tonys gone, who does that leave
My H is also a MAN who has no interest in porn. The busty blonde on the screen I walked in on was JUST this kind of thing with windows popping everywhere. Was this an email or a website, if email not possible, if website how did he get there In fact I TOLD my H that it was fine with me if he was interested in such...Like LL I was the one to scope out the adult channels on our cable package...I put on sexy shows....H falls asleep. Have you ask him why
So BELIEVE IT OR NOT....not all men are "typical guys" in this regard. My H does not own a SINGLE "men's" magazine. I guess he is not typical, does he even listen to dirty jokes, even tell them, has he always been this way?
Frankly, I find this to be a bit of a cosmic joke as I, myself, was conditioned early on to find erotica quite arousing...H...just no interest. Perhaps it has to do with low sex drive/low testosterone??? So which is it?
I read somewhere that somebodys H's sex drive rev up when he left home. So it was not low sex drive. Just that he did not want to have sex with his wife.
Quoting poepad: </font><blockquote><font class="small">Quote:</font><hr /> Sorry Poe, but sometimes you just P!ss me off! Hey, tonys gone, who does that leave what is your facination with tony?
My H is also a MAN who has no interest in porn. The busty blonde on the screen I walked in on was JUST this kind of thing with windows popping everywhere. Was this an email or a website, if email not possible, if website how did he get there oh really now? In fact I TOLD my H that it was fine with me if he was interested in such...Like LL I was the one to scope out the adult channels on our cable package...I put on sexy shows....H falls asleep. Have you ask him why why is the sky blue?
So BELIEVE IT OR NOT....not all men are "typical guys" in this regard. My H does not own a SINGLE "men's" magazine. I guess he is not typical, does he even listen to dirty jokes, even tell them, has he always been this way? don't know about shiny's h, but I'll assume he is the same as mine...sure they'll listen to a dirty joke but are not typically the ones to say them and yes they've always been this way.
Frankly, I find this to be a bit of a cosmic joke as I, myself, was conditioned early on to find erotica quite arousing...H...just no interest. Perhaps it has to do with low sex drive/low testosterone??? So which is it?
low sex drive is not always related to hormone levels
I read somewhere that somebodys H's sex drive rev up when he left home. So it was not low sex drive. Just that he did not want to have sex with his wife. I once read that a baby was born with three heads...honestly poe if you knew anything about sex drives or heck even read michelles ssm you'd know that the low desire person often starts as high desire in a r....I don't know of whom you refer...but it is possible that whomever you are speaking of wasn't a high drive person it was simply the new r they found outside of the m that made their desire go up...fyi the ld person often enters a r with a high drive wich plummets shortly after the r begins...
poe,
this topic has obviously reached a point where what you have to say is starting to become that of opinion and frankly is useless and unproductive...time to be a big boy and simply drop it.
Quote: SB-Q:what is your facination with tony? He was a counterbalance to LL.
Quote: POE-Q:Was this an email or a website, if email not possible, if website how did he get there
LL-A:oh really now? Yes, I am an computer instructor, so I do know this stuff. By the way when my youngest was 14 he was able to cover his porn surfing, up to that time I was able to detect it. So a skilled pc person can cover their tracks.
Quote: POE-Q:I guess he is not typical, does he even listen to dirty jokes, even tell them, has he always been this way?
LL-A:don't know about shiny's h, but I'll assume he is the same as mine...sure they'll listen to a dirty joke but are not typically the ones to say them and yes they've always been this way. And how do your know this, having worked for 8 companies, guys are all the same. Jokes, and pictures. With the new political correct times, jokes and pics are kept away from females. Though once and a while it is the female telling the joke.
Quote: SB-Q:Perhaps it has to do with low sex drive/low testosterone???
POE-Q:So which is it?
LL-A:low sex drive is not always related to hormone levels The question asked if it was low sex drive or low testosterone level. So the question still remains.
Quote: POE-Q:I read somewhere that somebodys H's sex drive rev up when he left home. So it was not low sex drive. Just that he did not want to have sex with his wife.
LL-A:I once read that a baby was born with three heads...honestly poe if you knew anything about sex drives or heck even read michelles ssm you'd know that the low desire person often starts as high desire in a r....I don't know of whom you refer...but it is possible that whomever you are speaking of wasn't a high drive person it was simply the new r they found outside of the m that made their desire go up...fyi the ld person often enters a r with a high drive wich plummets shortly after the r begins... Somewhere in the thousands of posts I have read, a woman H stated to her it was not low drive it was her.
Quote: poe,this topic has obviously reached a point where what you have to say is starting to become that of opinion and frankly is useless and unproductive...time to be a big boy and simply drop it. Sorry Lovey, the post was to Shinybear, not you.
Something interesting though is you have not complain about H for 2 days.
And I really AM sorry for bunging up YOUR thread this way so feel free to come use of some of my space any old time!
Quote: POE-Q:I guess he is not typical, does he even listen to dirty jokes, even tell them, has he always been this way?
LL-A:don't know about shiny's h, but I'll assume he is the same as mine...sure they'll listen to a dirty joke but are not typically the ones to say them and yes they've always been this way.
Too true, LL, my H will laugh, but won't tell. Poe as far as your comments about "the guys at work" my H FIRED a guy who was caught surfing porn sites in the office where he was vice-president.
As for the sexdrive vs hormones, I think both are involved. As LL said, low drive people CAN have surge of hormones, and concomitent increases in sex drive at the start of an R. Poe, I put HAIR on that man's chest...he was 29 at the time and had never had "proper" oral sex! . He also lost most of the hairs he's lost to date in those first two years.
Quote: LL-A:I once read that a baby was born with three heads...honestly poe if you knew anything about sex drives or heck even read michelles ssm you'd know that the low desire person often starts as high desire in a r....
Who? LL???? Outspoken!!! Loved this one, girlfriend...do you think we have a shot at educating this guy?
Quote: And how do your know this, having worked for 8 companies, guys are all the same. Jokes, and pictures. With the new political correct times, jokes and pics are kept away from females. Though once and a while it is the female telling the joke.
listen poe darling,
if you want to throw every man and woman into a generalized catagory go right ahead...but I will tell you of my h...when he lived at home..his room had no such things in it...when he moved out his room had no such things in it...not even the bathroom...he has his own shop...a garage (actually two of them) these are landscapers and sure I'd assume to see something there at least a calendar...but nothing...not even amongts the stack of magazines on the bathroom floor (as stated before, even when h doesn't expect me there, the magazines are sports oriented or landscape equiptment oriented) the posters on the wall are all business oriented, the trucks are free of such stuff, the desk and puter are free of such stuff.
Now would the rest of the crew perhaps like to have some stuff there? maybe maybe not, do they tell dirty jokes? sure...does my h listen to them? sure..does he laugh? probably...is he typically the deliverer of such jokes? probably not.
Not all men are like that and mine simply isn't...would I be bothered if he was? well since I am typically one to tell such jokes...it would be nice on occassion to know that your h isn't a prude..and as far as calendars and such...well h may never have hung one but my mom gave me a signed men in motion calendar for my 15th birthday! wich I reluctantly hung in my bedroom.
as far as being politically correct in not saying such jokes around women? well perhaps in some circles but not in the world I live in...I am not a prude and people know it...I hear the jokes, I tell the jokes, I hear the comments, I make the comments...h is typically a bystander.
is he hiding something from me? would be pretty stupid of him to do now wouldn't it!
Quote: Something interesting though is you have not complain about H for 2 days.
not much to complain about...plus I spent a bit of time reading the thread of a rather pathetically confused waw and note how selfish and immature she sounds and don't want to be like her.
LL-A:I once read that a baby was born with three heads...honestly poe if you knew anything about sex drives or heck even read michelles ssm you'd know that the low desire person often starts as high desire in a r.... --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Who? LL???? Outspoken!!! Loved this one, girlfriend...do you think we have a shot at educating this guy?
this was fun
Shiny
yup LL is outspoken when it is required of her to be so!
do we have a shot at educating poe??? I don't know...I see his posts here and there and though he's read a book or two, I'm not so sure he really gets it.
LL..sorry the past few days has been tough..and Poe is annoying..kinda like Tony..but I miss Tony..not all men are into that stuff..I have never even given a thought that my h might be looking at that..I don't know how to check..and do I want to??no..he tells dirty jokes..has never had a girlie magazine in our home..I don't think I would get too upset at this point, heck just for the curiosity I typed in www.sex.com..omg the stuff that came up..and I get alot of crap about enlarging stuff..it is really scary if you have young kids on computers.
I understand needing a break from here, but hope you will consider lurking..we all need you and value your input and your candid answers..but I understand..take care.
Quote: not much to complain about...plus I spent a bit of time reading the thread of a rather pathetically confused waw and note how selfish and immature she sounds and don't want to be like her. Do tell, I am always willing to learn about waw's, what is her username.
Quote: do we have a shot at educating poe??? I don't know...I see his posts here and there and though he's read a book or two, I'm not so sure he really gets it.
LL LL, Lets see, "a book or 2"
Books and audio I have read and listen to:
Give and Take: Love Bank by William Harley
Divorce Busting By Michele Weiner-Davis
Divorce For Dummies
Divorce Remedy By Michele Weiner-Davis
10 Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives by Dr. Laura
Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix's
Getting Through To The Man You Love By Michele Weiner-Davis
His Needs Her Needs By Willard Harley
How To Get Married After 35 by Helena Rosenberg
How To Make Love All Night by Barbara Keesling
Life Strategies: Doing What Works, Doing What Matters By Phillip C. McGraw
Love Must Be Tough By Dr. Dobson
Making Love Work By Ellen Kreidman
Mars And Venus On A Date-Gray
Mars And Venus/Starting Over By John Gray
Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus-Gray
Relationship Rescue And Workbook by Phil McGraw
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
The Rules by Ellen Fein-Sherrie Schneider
What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Women by Dr. Dobson
What You Mother Did Not Tell You And Your Father Did Not Know By John Gray
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Does Poe get it, YES!!
Did Poe get it too late to save his marriage, YES!!.
I do miss Tony, he was so much fun.
My GF is sticking with me because I get it.
I am chatting with 2 DB members to help them save their marriages.
It just is so much fun with you playing devil advocates.
. He also lost most of the hairs he's lost to date in those first two years. 
