Trixi,

He rattled off a good list of new year's resolutions, and like everyone else, he isn't going to do any of them. If he wanted to stop smoking the time to do it was when SS was there and begged him to stop smoking marijuana in front of him. He is hooked on all that stuff. Addicts don't stop. they just say they will. And my guess is that RM is his dealer. That's why RM is more important than anyone else in his life. I mean it. Get away from him. If you run he will chase you. If you stay, he will continue to treat you like dirt.