Stay strong and don't listen to the voice. It's full of crap.
Why do we do that? I know my kids know I'm the one...I'm the rock. They think they are going on a weekend like they would with grandma/grandpa.
Here's a good one...s14 does his best to indiscreetly get on his dad's nerves. It started already while they were leaving. I just had to giggle. s14 will do the same to me from time to time....but, I'm used to it.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home