So sorry BM that it has come to this, but on the brighter side it should be better for you and son. No more trying to guess when he is going to be gone.
Once he is gone then you can focus on your life. Even though he is gone it doesn't mean the end. Maybe then he will want to go to MC or want to return at some point.
You do learn to move on with your life in ways that you may have never imagined. I know that my h misses our home and being away from the kids. I can only pray that HE will want to come home and be a family and h once again.
Don't loose hope or give up, build your strength.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"