Wow, MWG your h seems so stuck, but I don't think in depression he is ready for any of those type of convos. He needs to get a job, let alone figure out where he is going to live in the future.

Are you planning on doing anything different with your contact with your h? What are your thoughts on forgiveness from God?

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"