Am I eternally hopeful or in denial....?

[glamgirl]

You do sound good SC, but keep the expectations at zero and please don't ask your h anymore about ow. He is going to do what he is going to do regardless of how you feel or what you say, so does it really matter that you ask?

I know all so hard, but I have learned to do a ton of zipping of the lips through all of this and just focus on the positives.

My h did say during C that for every negative about Glam there is at least 10 positives. Wow, that made me feel good. Now if h would just NOT focus on the negatives.