Quoting poepad: </font><blockquote><font class="small">Quote:</font><hr /> there is a difference between intentionally "surfing" and opening an email...in the end is it a "big deal" probably not...but it would be nice if h were infact doing so that he could be honest...h has always claimed to have little to no interest in such "stuff".
Maybe H is afraid of your wrath if he admitted to it.
there would be no wrath if in fact he admitted to it...it would simply surprise me because he has always claimed to not be interested in such things...heck we just got satelite tv and most of the stations are free for the first three months...of the two of us..who do you think took a peek to see if the "adult" channels were comming in free??????? I'll give you a hint...it wasn't him (an no they don't come in)
if you want to assume that h was infact surfing the web looking at such stuff...go right ahead and assume...I would tend to think that a more accurate assumption would be that he was checking the email on our other account (one I also have access to it's the origianl generic addy we set up but no longer use but junk does get sent there) deleting the emails....one opened (heck I've done that on occassion by accident myself) he then either clicked on something there out of curiousity or having opened the initial link set off a chain reaction...cause you see all the things I saw were infact connected through the original site...
it's really not something worth discussing here..cause people of course have their own ideas and opinions about such things...am I curios about what happend? sure...do I believe his explenation (wich btw is exactly the same explenation that jethro gave)? sure...does it really matter in the end? NO.