John, I agree that the swinging back/forth has got to stop. Yet I disagree that the "it's not you, it's me" thing is crap. He may just be saying that to get away, but still think it's me....
But I know, for sure, that it's HIM. He is the common denominator in all of his real and imagined misery....
I am ready to get dressed up, go on a date, and get kissed. Is that so wrong??
Although reading what you all in the dating world have written I am not sure I can take the joys of dating again...
