Unfortunately Julia, I think you are right about your H being one of those set on his decision.
I know nothing about D laws in the UK. Is there some sort of waiting period before filing? You mentioned something about not having grounds so having to wait 2 years. He is able to live with some other woman while still being M'd to you and there are no grounds? WTF?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!