Wow, beej. Were you a private investigator in your past life?

In person, I don't act like everything is fine. When we're together for something, I can see the guilt on her face. I don't act all sad or down, I act as non-chalant as I can. Even on the phone, I really try to NOT be chatty with her. The long phone convo on that Monday, I heard her out first, then things started going back and forth.

Its my emails or when we would IM, that I over do it. Our phone convo's and in person meets are strained at best, but I do see number of contact.

Not sure if it does any good to remind her of her 'Scarlet letter'. She just goes into defense mode. I suppose that I do need to remind her that I'm not ok with our sitch sometimes. But that would seem to lead to an R talk, which I don't want.

A parable? Hmmm. I'll try to think of one.

Thanks for the kind word, karen. FINALLY! \:\)

And beej, two days and no contact at all! \:\)



Last edited by hopeful4her; 01/09/09 09:23 PM.
Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."