Hope, Thanks for stopping by. You mentioned that to me earlier about Plan A/B and I have been thinking about it a lot lately. As a matter of fact I printed it from the website yesterday. I know there is also a book, have you ever read it?
Right now I'm trying not to rock the boat too badly. I need to get my sales tax paid on my car!
Also a problem I have is my daughter's ballgames that she cheers at. Sometimes we ride together especially if it is an out of town ballgame. Even if we don't ride together at the home games, he will come sit with me.
Last night he told me that he was going hunting with some friends tomorrow. I said how did it come about that so and so is going with ya'll? He said he called me Wed. night out of the blue and they decided they would go hunting.
Later I asked if he wanted to do something Friday night, he said maybe but it can't be much because I'm getting up early for hunting. Then about 30 minutes later he told me that when this friend that called asked if he wanted to go to dinner Friday night. I just looked at him and said okay. He then said "Well you know how so and so is. He is not very dependable so who knows if he'll even call back". Part of me thinks he just made that part up to avoid going out with me tonight. I did not say anything though, I just kept my mouth shut.
I'm like you until he gets rid of the secretary/OW, I know we can't fully move forward. I really don't think they are seeing each other outside of work anymore. He is at home when DD17 goes to see DD20 most of the time.
One good thing I did learn today is the OW was at a local Honky Tonk on News Yeas Eve. H and I were out of town for New Year's Eve with two other couples. Maybe she was out prowling for her latest victim. H's cousin's friend was playing in a band there. The cousin and his wife went to watch and saw the ho was there.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon