Well if it was easy, 50% of America wouldn't be divorced would it.
This isn't easy Ral, the question is do you have the fortitude to make it? Is your wife worth it the effort even if she doesn't come back (too you), would she, if the situation was reversed, come here looking for help?
Look deep, can you do this?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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