You're getting some really great advice all around.
Virtually Handsome and Craig are both in a more similar boat with you than I was. It would behoove you to find, mentors, who walk a similar path. And they are both very good guys.
Wondering how VH's self improvments are coming along ; )
Ral, do this for you and no one else and the changes stick, if you change for someone else, it won't last and is nothing more than a trick. A trick is a lie, and liars suck.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Let me try to put all this in perspective.... Don't overthink. Be Loving , Receptive, Listen/Validate. Don't pursue, drop the rope. Work on yourself and improve your weaknesses. Find some GAL's, definitely no pressuring of any kind. Correct ?
Well if it was easy, 50% of America wouldn't be divorced would it.
This isn't easy Ral, the question is do you have the fortitude to make it? Is your wife worth it the effort even if she doesn't come back (too you), would she, if the situation was reversed, come here looking for help?
Look deep, can you do this?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
