I understand what VH is saying , and I can relate to it personally. You cannot spend all your time trying to make everyone else happy, it is impossible to do so.I made that mistake, I made my family my life,and removed the Lord from the center.Ultimately it mad me a miserable person, and it affected my family. It took my wife's announcement that she was unhappy to wake me up, what a wake up call.
In my case I got back on my knees and asked for God's forgiveness. I changed, my wife noticed , she is still in MLC, but I know she sees my changes. I did not change for her, but I changed for myself. I am a happier person.I can now deal with anything that is thrown my way. I can love my wife without her loving me. Look inside, like Jack suggested, really look, improve yourself. We are here to help. God bless.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
