Quote: Even if you do decide to take a much needed breather from the BB (and we all would miss you, BTW), this is something that your H must address in therapy - whether by himself or with you there. I truly hope that he will go of his own volition - it has helped me a great deal.
I doubt that h will do or say anything about it...what his excuse will be is that it was an email sent...that opened and things just started opening and mass confussion...
now fine I accept that spam comes at times but I do notice that it comes in spurts...(probably after a site is visited) these particular sites were all linked off of one and yes they all were visited last night. did our email account recieve an invite to see visit a live webcamsite? sure I've seen such invites myself...but thing is you delete them and there gone...on the foolish chance that you open it..you see one page...four don't just pop up (and yes I did try it with the said sites) how much browsing through the sites was actually done? I don't know but I do know that some things were clicked...was h just curious? possibly...but if he was he can and should have just admitted so instead of making up excuses about the computer going nuts on him and acting all defensive and then calling me nuts.
I don't know what will come of this topic...I'm sure if I bring it up again it will only end in another fight..him being defensive and me just being fed up. so really is there a point in bringing it up again?
I think it would probabaly be best for me to leave the bb at least for a while...I know I have been helpful to some but I also feel that my vents and vacillitations might have a tendancy to scare people and that doesn't leave me feeling all that well.
