Jack, I was living for them, My sole purpose was keeping them happy. I liked to work on the house, my weight was around 208 then , now I'm 188. I just couldn't seem to make W happy I guess. Sexually no problems either... We have a 8 year old home we built new. The only thing I can tell you is she felt I have a quick temper.( And I'm watching it closely) I was trying to be the poster boy for American Husband. I'm not perfect, by any means, But I was giving my best effort...