Well, at least it's good to know I'm not the only one who does that overcompensating, then not feeling good about myself when I do!
I wish that the "avoiders" could see the benefits to thier OWN self-interest of bringing things more into balance. My H did actually read some of the Venus and Mars books, and got some idea of the importance of these issues. Kindergarten stuff, but, oh well--gotta start somewhere!
