Whooaa....slow down LD. It is totally understandable how upset you are right now but you can't just through in the towel when she throughs these types of things at you. You have told me to believe half of what I hear and none of what I see. Are you following your own advice? If you don't ever want to wonder "what if" then you need to see this through to the end. When she gives you papers or decides that this other guys is worth marrying then I would say that it would be tough to hold on, some might even say hopeless. THIS IS NOT FAIR. I know that. She is living the carefree lifestyle while you are stuck keeping up your family finances, being the best dad you can, being a responsible adult... Do you think she likes living in this chaos? I am sure is some sick way it was exciting at first but it will get old. What if she has those short moments of clarity when she thinks about what she is doing and walking away from? She is probably pushing those feelings aside but she can not forever. Eventually it will all come back around. Do you want to be there when that happens or do you want to be the one that walked away? Sorry to sound harsh but I know you can hold on a bit longer.
M 27 W 26 M 4.5 Years T 6 years Bomb Oct. '08; "ILYBIANILWY", "You don't fit into my life", "Our marriage had to have been a mistake because it is not working".
