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Why not ask BIL or SIL for a ticket to the next game? It could be a "night out" for you and H.



put it this way...before sil bought her own ticket...when bil couldn't go to a game (his seat is with my h's) instead of offering it to me he sent his w to go with my h. I wasn't even told...had to over hear it in conversation wich of course then caused a fight.

I think if I want to go to a game and h is not bothering to invite me then I'll just get together with one of my gf's and find someone who has tickets and buy them. that is what we did last year...gf had four tickets...brought me and two of her male friends....h wanted to know where we were parking...where we were sitting...what we were bringing...kept calling to direct us to park near him...even had me sit on his lap while tailgaiting.

h just doesn't get it when it comes to this stuff.

sure I could just ask bil for use of his ticket when he can't go...but that would be stepping on h's toes and I'd rather not go there.


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h's way of doing things....pretend it never happend and move on.

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I understand how fustrating this is - my H is the same way. Loose ends hanging EVERYWHERE!!!


so then, how do we handle this?

LL