Gees......BBJ, I'm getting on the next plane to the frozen tundra you live in so I can kick the sh!t out of Dan. Seriously, that man doesn't deserve you one bit! You are so patient and loving with him and he pulls this "we need to talk about this tonight" crap on you again? BROKEN DOESN'T EVEN BEGIN TO COVER IT!
The man wants everything just his way and doesn't comprehend the give and take in a M. I'm sorry, I know he's your H and you love him but his mistreatment of you is beginning to make me a little nuts. Probably because it's almost exactly like my H when he came home the two times after leaving. Get's my dander up.
You know I will support whatever decision you make with regards to your M BBJ. If there is any chance in heck of repairing your M then I'm completely in support of you. If Dan keeps treating you this way and refusing the give what you need in order to make your M a partnership again then I don't see your M surviving unless you are willing to just ignore all his wrong behaviors. That doesn't sound like you to me AT ALL.
Chin up, brave soul! You will handle his chitt with no problems, I'm sure of it!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!