There is something terribly wrong if you are not comfortable being in bed with your wife. I am not asking for wild crazy sex (although I would love to have it ) at this point. I just want to be able to go to bed and lay down next to the man I love.
That is NOT asking too much. If he tries to say that it is, I know better. I realize we are just in the most baby steps of rebuilding a relationship. And it hasn't been defined, he just showed back up at the house and started sleeping in our bed again. Then back to the couch...
If he doesn't want to come to bed with me, then don't live with me. Move out, ask me on a date, and if you are extremely lucky I might think about accepting....But don't move in and then think we are going to be room-mates...