I'm really beginning to think her saying that is just a way to diffuse some of her own guilt for what she says and does . . . I think she's full of sh*t! She has shown zero interest in getting to know me as a friend or even an acquaintance. She says she doesn't think I love her because if I did I wouldn't have talked to my family about the details of what's going on after she moved out and announced she wanted a D; she also says that I wouldn't have called the police on her the day she decided to wreck a bunch of things in our house while our D was sitting there. I don't buy her crap anymore. WP