Bottom line is that it doesn't matter who was MOSTLY at fault. When our spouse decides they've had enough, there is only one thing we can do that has any real chance at being effective in changing the dynamics.
Change ourselves.
Not in to what we think THEY want.
We need to work on changing ourselves into the person we should have always been. Period.
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Notice that NDS did not try to fix his wife's problems. He did not try to change her, or even change her mind. He changed himself.
Great advice from BWORL
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
