Just checking in here. I was married to an alcoholic that cheated as well. Its not easy and I truly believe until they can work on the alcoholism issue you cannot resolve the marriage issues.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!