She's not competing with anything. I leave work everday at 5 pm; I don't go out with other friends, I spend all of my free time with her and our D. In fact, she says I'm too clingy and she wants me to go out and have my own friends. I'm really beginning to think her saying that is just a way to diffuse some of her own guilt for what she says and does. I've gone out of my way in words and actions to show her that I love her and that I want to rebuild our R, even just starting as friends and slowly working back towards a marriage. She's just not interested. She hardly ever calls to see how I am doing, she never asks to spend anytime with me; I'm the only one who does those things and when I do she shoots them down. She did that the past 2 nights in a row. The night before last after we put our D to bed I asked if she wanted to watch TV with me, she said no because that's the time she likes to talk on the phone. Then last night after our D went to bed I asked if she wanted to play cards, she again said no because she wanted to shower and go straight to bed. So I went to bed and what did she do after she showered? She got on the computer. I think she's full of sh*t! She has shown zero interest in getting to know me as a friend or even an acquaintance. She says she doesn't think I love her because if I did I wouldn't have talked to my family about the details of what's going on after she moved out and announced she wanted a D; she also says that I wouldn't have called the police on her the day she decided to wreck a bunch of things in our house while our D was sitting there. I don't buy her crap anymore. WP
