LL..great job on the class..and on the h!!! I knew you would dig and ponder and figure it all out..keep doing what you have to do..I do know that when I am happy and feeling good about myself in general that it reflects to all other areas of my life...we can never change some of the most irritating things that we would like..but we can keep the changes about ourselves ongoing forever...
Hope your evening with your friends was fun... do you find that your life is relaxing a little more as time goes on? The time and patient thing is also ongoing.

Have a great week
Sue