Guess I got locked! In reply to the posts on my last thread:
Thanks, I have no intentions of dating, she was the one who wanted me to. I admit the thought was tempting because of the loneliness, but I am committed to saving my marriage.
Now with that out of the way, another crazy thing happened today, I had a DB coach session, which was helpful, and when I was done I got a text from my wife replying to a text that I had sent about our dog walker. Anyway I was blown away, when the text read hey do you want to go Skiing Sunday?.....WTF then got another text saying do you want to go to the gym tonight?
We went to the gym and worked out together it was fun! When we came back I gave her some space because I don't want to overwhelm her. I got ready for bed then we started talking and she was openly admitting she unsure about stuff ( should I stay or should I go) and then went on to talk about what we should do with the house as far as renovations and decorating.
We also talked about the schedule for our dog walker. {We didn't need one a whole lot before because I work shifts. She was going to stay in the house and works all day so she hired her under those circumstances}. Anyway she said she was going to have to talk to the dog walker because at the time she wanted a Separation and now she doesn't know. I guess I am wearing off on her a bit.
It was a nice night, I was confident and relaxed. She is becoming positive more and more, with of course the roller coaster as well. She was talking to her mother on the phone telling her about a trip she wanted to take to clear her head, and her mom said you and Jeff should go together. She told her mom that she wasn't ready for that. My wife (after she hung up) told me about the conversation I said you don't need that kind of pressure, we were laughing and kidding about the conversation.
So once again I get surprised, funny thing is I was praying about it all day and God answered with a text message (via my Wife LOL)
See what tomorrow brings
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
