Hi, I havent posted to you before but I wanted to tell you something: I know you want your marriage and you are fighting for it but the way things are developing you need to be realistic and make sure you will not put yourself and the kids in a bad position because you are afraid to act wisely thinking you will eliminate chances for reconcilliation. Your H took some radical actions: "kicked you out", changed the locks, called the police, filed papers. He is ahead of you and you are still acting out of fear of loosing him. You need legal represantation ASAP. I dont know how things work in your country but in my country you leaving the house could turn out to be a really bad move. You need to pull it together and protect your rights and the rights of your kids. Talk to a lawyer, dont do anything unless you know it is not legally harming you. This is no game, this is hard ball. Protect yourself... Stay strong, xxx K
