Have you wondered if making the viewing of the porn such a secret thing for your H just adds to it's attractiveness?
I've thought about this too. Gosh, why do they have to act like 18 year olds?? I could pretend it doesn't bother me and that I don't care, but then again I really can't. I've tried.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."