I'm doing it basically because if I'm going to lose them as my family, they might as well have the truth. I guess also because they've been a part of my life for so long (since '90) that I hate to have them think badly of me when I really have tried hard to be a good wife and mother. And of course, in a best-case scenario, they would put some pressure on him to prioritize his family over wicca woman. Altho that didn't happen with anyone else I have told and expected to "intervene."
And besides, Puppy said so.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012